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Thursday, July 16, 2009

In which it is established that I am genetically programmed to be a hippie.

I was adopted. And it was obvious to me at a young age, that I didn’t fit into the family that adopted me. Without any genetic or family information myself, even as a little kid, I found myself a bit confused and fascinated by genetics and nature vs. nurture debates. I felt like a ship without a port for 30 years.

Then I found my bio family. One of the first real relatives I ever met, was my Uncle Jim. My birth-mother’s brother. He lived in San Francisco and ran an alternative health business out of his house. He was funny and spiritual and artistic and loving and cosmic. He kept a journal and drew, and opened his life and home to everyone. He lived and taught and loved to the fullest. We connected from the moment we met, in a way I had not experienced connection before. I adored him. It was because of him, I finally collected, understood and owned an actual piece of myself. Because of him, I know, that I was genetically pre-programmed to be a free spirit. I am a happy, peace loving, free spirited hippie. And I am claiming it! It is not all that I am. I am not defined by what I found, but I understand that part of myself better now and I can embrace the hippie in me.

Last week, Uncle Jimmy passed away. A small memorial was held for him in his “cosmic kitchen.” A celebration of his life with the MANY friends he had, will be sometime in the next few weeks and I will be there. In the meantime, I am posting some pictures that will surely show what kind of man he was. My beautiful Uncle Jimmy. My cosmic, genetic connection to who I really am. Goodbye Uncle. Tell my birth mother you got to know me on this earth. You will be missed!

Jim Karnstedt passed away peacefully, surrounded by loving friends and family July 10 at the age of 63 following a sudden illness. Born in Minneapolis, MN, he lived in San Francisco since 1969. He was a healer and educator, sharing his wealth of information through lectures, video and his business, Ion & Light. Jim touched many lives with his generosity and his enchanting spirit. He was loved by all who knew him. A celebration of his life will be held soon in San Francisco.


Cheri @ Blog This Mom! said...

Oh. I like him.

I think Kate and I will marry him. It's okay that he'd dead. We don't mind that.


I'm sorry for your loss.

katydidnot said...

i really like uncle jim. i'm sorry he's gone, and i'm glad you found him and loved him. he was the better man for it, i'm sure.

trinity1000 said...

I love your blog and sorry about your uncle! Love you to bunches!

just jamie said...

Awww, Uncle Jim. What a huge loss to the loving goodness of the world. But what a huge gain while he was here, touching lives with his groovy ionized ways! xoxoxo

Maggie May said...

he sounds great, i'm sorry you lost him.

Mrs Ferez said...

I think you should have more regard for your adoptive family.

Anonymous said...

Sorry for your loss. I was just getting ready to call Jim when I learned that he had passed away. A great guy who has made a difference in the lives of many.